Terence G. Stocum
Home:
Chili, NY
Date of Death:
December 28, 2009
Age:
59
Birthdate:
August 28, 1950
Place of Birth:
Rochester, NY
Service Information:
Saturday, January 30, 2010 2 PM Henrietta United Church of Christ
Visitation:
None
Interment:
Private


Terence G. Stocum, age 59, of Chili died Monday, December 28, 2009 in Strong Memorial Hospital, Rochester, NY.
Mr. Stocum was born August 28, 1950 in Rochester, NY the son of the late Thomas G. and the late Janet (Gerow) Stocum.

Besides his parents Terry was predeceased by his twin brother Tom.


He is survived by his son, Patrick (Jessie), granddaughters, Megan and Amber Watson. Brother Richard (Dona) and sister Lynne Stocum. Several aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. Terry retired from and will be missed by his friends at Penwalt.

Terry was an avid fisherman and loved his music and movies.

Terry's Memorial service will be held SATURDAY January 30, 2010 at the Henrietta United Church of Christ 1400 Lehigh Station Rd., Henrietta, NY.








Susan Hendrickson (Vine) December 30, 2009
Dear Rick and Lynn, My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this time. Terry was a great guy and will be sadly missed by many. God Bless.

Kathy (Muhs) Sikorski December 30, 2009
To my friend Lynne & family, I am sad to hear of Terry's passing. My sympathies go out to you all. I will remember him. Love. Kathy & family

Kurt & Mary Ellyn December 30, 2009
What great pictures to remember Terry. He loved being at 1000 Islands. Patrick - our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Deb Felton December 30, 2009
The Terry I knew was always easy going and quick to laugh. The years on the aerosol line at Pennwalt and Fisons would never have been the same without him! He's gone to soon and will never be forgotten. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family.

Shirley and David Hoag December 30, 2009
My memories of Terry begin with his birth. He and his twin brother, Tom, were so precious to all in our family. As he grew, he was a nephew full of fun and very interested in history. He will be missed.

Cheryl McAvinney December 30, 2009
Fun times at Aunt Janet's during the summer gathering baby toads. Terry would be watching and laughing from a distance... He still is...

Jim Hayes December 30, 2009
Our deepest sympathy to the Stocum family. I have many fond memories of growing up in Henrietta with Terry and Tom.

Dave & Anna Karr December 30, 2009
You will always be missed. The good times we had at work and at play will be a chersished memory

Gene Shenk December 30, 2009
To my friend Terry thanks for many good times fishing and introducing me to the 1000 islands. You brought me up there almost 20 years ago and I still take my family there every summer. Our last trip together at the islands this past june will always be a great memory. Rest in peace my friend. Lynne you are the best! If you need anything just call and I will see you at the service. Take Care. Pat and family my sympathies are with you all. Gene Shenk

Nancy Drum December 31, 2009
Lynn, Ricky and Patrick - My deepest and sincerest condolences to you all. I'm so very sorry for your great loss - too many of these for you in such a short time. Terry was a great friend and band mate to me many years back in the St. James Band. We had so much fun in those days and he always made us laugh so hard. I'll never forget all those Saturday afternoons of Terry and Tom singing all those great tunes - Beatles, Stones - you name it! I'm so grateful I had a chance to play music with you, Tommy, Rich and Bill (who became my husband 20 years ago and who I met through you guys!) What an impact you made on my life and I always go back to those memories and smile. I'm so glad I got to see you one last time at Bill's 50th in April and that you were able to come - it meant so much to us both. Terry - We will love you forever - you will never be forgotten, my friend. I hope you're up there singing with Tommy and having a grand old time - you deserve it! God Bless you and may you rest in peace. - Nancy

Rick Stocum January 1, 2010
Terry Fifty Six years has past by us fast.You we're there when I first started school,our birth days and our holidays.Then the British Invasion hit us in 1964. We drop our baseball gloves and picked up the guitars,the rest is history.We started painting houses,fishing,and laughing seemed to last forever. Thanks for the memories and great times.You taught me everthing I know I wished you would of tought me everthing you knew. I know someday we will sing and play the Northen Songs a-gain. i will miss and love you. Brother Rick

lynne January 2, 2010
terry what comes to mind are all the times out in avon you and penny made it so much fun watching walt rich and you singing the beatles songs we had some great times then then watching you in the st james band the never ending battle we had over who the better actor was flynn or gable in later years helping with tom and mom then when there was just you and i at blueberry hill you were there to support me when i had to let go of rocky i can see the smile on your face when i tried to cook anything there is so much to say you were loved so much and will be missed say hello to john lennon for me love lynne

Cheryl Schmid January 3, 2010
Rick, Dona and Lynn So sorry for your loss. All my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Cheryl and Neal

Diane Buecheler January 5, 2010
Lynne, Rick and Dona, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you take comfort in the memories you have of Terry. You are in my prayers.

Sheila Metzger January 5, 2010
Lynn and family, Sorry to hear of another loss for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sheila

Dawn McArthy January 7, 2010
I am so saddened to just hear this news. Terry was a great friend and an even better story teller. I could sit and listen for hours of Terry telling me stories about the "band days" and other crazy things from the past. I never tired of listening to him. My condolances to his family. I will miss him dearly. ~Dawn

Rev. David Kane January 8, 2010
Terry: We all spent some really good times together. It seemed we'd always be together. Be at peace my friend. Rest in the arms of the Lord until the day when we all meet in that glorious eternal choir. Be at peace.

Stevie Latoski January 24, 2010
My heart goes out to the Stocum family.God bless you all in your time of grief.I remember many good nights sitting with you and Pat and my Dad ,sittin,fishin,eating roasted corn,and most importantly singing and playing guitars.God bless you Tom,say HI to John and George for me. 585-820-4498.

Stevie Latoski January 24, 2010
Pat,I am abad typer and I could't change my e-mail,I know you understand that I meant to say For Terry to say hi to Tom and enjoy jammin in heaven with all our favorites who are waiting for us.Special songs will be dedicated to your Dad. Always your brother Stevie